How 'orange peel' theory can signify a huge red flag in your relationship
Topics: Sex and Relationships, Life
Rhianna Benson
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Topics: Sex and Relationships, Life
Last year, a controversial new dating trend known as the 'orange peel' theory hit headlines all over the world, and led millions of lovers to realise they were in dead-end relationships.
Now, a warning to take heed of the dangerous trend is once again being issued by romance experts, who say it can help in pointing out certain 'red flag' behaviours.
For those out the loop with the ins and outs of Gen Z dating, allow us to fill you in...
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'Orange peel' theory was founded last winter, when a TikTok star known by the username @jennaskates revealed on the video-sharing app that her boyfriend had separated egg whites from the yolks for her, after her long-manicured hands left her unable to do it herself.
After the clip accumulated millions of views, other users were prompted to ask themselves whether their partners are prone to fulfilling equally helpful acts of service without having to be asked.
As we say, the trend has seemingly reemerged recently, with dating experts saying it can be used as a means of identifying the 'red flag' behaviour of not noticing your partner could do with a hand - one professional who chimed in was Anna Birmingham, who defined the theory.
According to the dating pro, your partner's response to the question of whether or not they'd be willing to open to peel an orange for you can actually reveal 'so much about their attitude towards you and your relationship'.
Describing her own husband as the 'orange peel theory poster child', she added: "He does little things every single day without me ever having to ask for them because he genuinely likes the way that I light up when he does them."
Since then, others have shared their own experiences with the theory.
Whilst one TikToker claimed her partner always cracks open the legs of her crab when they enjoy seafood together, another revealed that her husband once wipes all the salt of a portion of chips she was eating, having accidentally sprinkled some on.
Apparently, however, not every relationship expert believes the trend to be a healthy means of testing the strength of your romance.
Therapist Don Cole - who works at the Gottman Institute - dubbed the theory 'endearing', before branding the testing element both 'negative and inappropriate'.
"The whole idea in successful marriages is we don’t want to set them up to fail," he previously told The New York Times, encouraging his readers not to play games with their loved one.
Instead, he recommends simply asking or making remarks about the things you like, giving the example of telling your partner: "I love when you make me a latte in the morning."
What are your thoughts on the theory?