Swingers share ‘easy’ way to identify other couples’ spicy preferences on cruises

Couples on adults-only cruises have shared the simple way passengers can work out each other’s preferences without having to ask an awkward question.

Spicy cruises have become increasingly popular with holidaymakers looking for a more open adults-only experience while at sea. Depending on the company, some trips include clothing-optional areas, dedicated playrooms, themed parties, and social events aimed at couples in the lifestyle.

Despite the increasingly open levels of sexual fun on offer, because there are hundreds or even thousands of people onboard, figuring out who is interested in what can be difficult; that’s particularly when the whole point is to keep things relaxed, respectful and consensual.

Recently, though, lifestyle content creators Bella & Jase (4ourplay) have explained how Bliss Cruise guests use personalised name necklaces to help other passengers quickly identify their names, relationship dynamic and ‘play style’.

Appearing in a TikTok video on Bliss Cruise’s account , the pair said: “You might be wondering why you'll see so many couples who go on Bliss Cruise wearing name necklaces.”

“When you're part of the loyalty program, which is free to sign up for, you can come to the name necklace station and choose your beads, which all correspond to a specific play style.”

“This way, it's easy to see at a quick glance people's names as well as their relationship dynamic.”

The necklaces shown by the TikTok creators feature different coloured beads, with each colour representing a different preference or boundary. According to the breakdown noted by Metro, white means: “Loves the vibes but prefers to watch: no participation, just voyeuristic fun.”

Green is for those who: “Love being watched and are comfortable with soft swap – kissing, touching, and oral play.”

Blue signals someone who: “Enjoys full swap and threesomes with adventurous, consenting couples.”

Black means passengers are: “Open to group play, orgies, and hall pass encounters – independent fun encouraged.”

Pink represents those: “Open to same-sex play and bi-curious or bisexual experiences and connections.”

Meanwhile, red is for anyone who: “Explores kink, fetish, BDSM, and role-play for a thrilling, sensual edge.”

The idea is not only to make introductions easier, but also to reduce confusion in busy social spaces where guests may be meeting several new people throughout the trip.

Bella & Jase added: “The styles range from newbies all the way to group play, hall pass, and more, and everything in between.”

“There's also beads to show that you're bi or k-i-n-k-y.

“On Bliss Cruise, it's so social, and you meet so many people, and it can be really hard to remember people's names. Sometimes it's loud, so you can't hear as well, too, so having a name tag necklace really helps. Make sure to get yours!”

Bliss Cruise has also reportedly confirmed in response to TikTok users that the ‘Make a Name Necklace’ station is available on day one and the first two sea days.

Guests are also said to be able to change their beads at any point during the trip, including adding or removing colours.

While systems like these often raise eyebrows online, curious social media users have been giving this a lot of praise — especially one who also seems to be on the swinger scene.

They added: “This is something I REALLY wish clubs would do! I've been to some events that had traffic light wristbands, but they're never specific enough. These are amazing! Especially since I forget everyone's names.”