Former Russian spy explains the ‘anchor technique’ to make men ‘hooked only on you’

A self-described former Russian spy has shared the method she used to make men ‘hooked only on you’.

Women’s empowerment coach and fashion influencer Aliia Roza says she was born into an elite military family and used to infiltrate human trafficking gangs and drug organised crime groups before she was identified as a spy and forced to flee Russia.

Speaking on the Raj Shamani podcast the former Miss Asia International described 'how to put an anchor on your target's body' to manipulate the target’s self-esteem.

The technique was used 'to make our target to be dependent in [a] sexual way from you' and they 'not be able to be aroused with any other female partner so he would be only hooked on you'.

The influencer says she was raised in an elite military family in the former USSR (Photo by Pascal Le Segretain/Getty Images)

She explained how men were at their most vulnerable immediately after sex, specifically after they had just ejaculated because this was 'the most vulnerable relaxed time where his brain consumes and accepts any information you say'.

At this moment she was trained to say a phrase like ‘you’re the best’ or ‘this sex was the best’ and then touch a chosen part of the body, which was ‘not public’ like the hands.

She suggested an intimate part should be picked out, like neck, shoulders or ear and doing this several times after climax was a ‘very strong technique’.

Once this is embedded after sex, speaking the anchor words while touching the chosen spot would then activate the same part of the brain, she said.

"Honey trap agents, they would say 'we are the power couple' and use the same things. 'Only I can help you'," she elaborated.

"'Only with me you can have such a pleasure. Only with me you can be strong. Only I know how to make you successful. I know I am the best in your life.'"

She insisted the method was an extremely powerful way to make someone dependent on you and ensure they believed only you could give them what they wanted, although no evidence the methods work has been provided.

In an interview with the New York Post, Aliia outlined how to initially approach the target so they would fall for you.

The key was not to approach the target straight away during the first encounter.

Instead, she said she was trained to: “Appear in their life — seven times, to be exact — before making contact.

“You might show up at their coffee shop, their gym, or just keep liking their posts. When you finally meet, their brain already trusts you.”

The self-described ex-spy insists her techniques work (Photo by Michael Buckner/Variety via Getty Images)

The ex-spy said an agent ‘starts with love bombing’ and ‘messages full of compliments, selfies, bikini photos’.

“They pretend to be weak or alone: ‘My parents were killed, I’m a student, I’m broke.’ It triggers the hero instinct. Every man wants to feel like the rescuer,” she explained.

That’s when she would use the ‘milk technique’, pretending to be a mutual connection, ‘but it’s all fabricated’.

There is no scientific evidence that techniques like these work, and critics would regard them as emotional manipulation.