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‘Simmer’ dating is the latest Gen Z trend that you might want to try

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Published 17:47 17 Sep 2024 GMT+1

‘Simmer’ dating is the latest Gen Z trend that you might want to try

The latest dating trend could also really benefit your personal growth alongside your love life

Rhiannon Ingle

Rhiannon Ingle

It seems there's a term for just about anything when it comes to weird and wonderful world of dating.

From bedroom trends like 'soaking' and 'cuckholding' all the way through to slightly less NSFW buzz phrases like 'frozen images' and 'pebbling' - it's clear the younger generation are great at condensing fairly dense subject matter into a neat little phrase.

And the latest on everyone's lips is none other than 'simmer' dating, which appears to be the very latest Gen Z dating trend you may want to give a whirl.

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Gen Z seem to be loving the new 'simmer' dating trend (Thomas Barwick / Getty Images)
Gen Z seem to be loving the new 'simmer' dating trend (Thomas Barwick / Getty Images)

Now, according to a recent study conducted by dating app QuackQuack, near to half of Gen Z daters based in big cities are trying out 'simmer' dating.

But what on earth is it?

Well, it's simply emphasising a slower and more intentional way of dating when it comes to romance - focusing more on building a genuine connection over time rather than rushing into things too hastily.

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Sort of the antithesis to swipe-heavy dating culture, 'simmer' dating encourages those looking for love to take their time getting to know one another.

In short, it's all about building a strong emotional connection and foundation as a unit before making massive commitments or rushing into physical intimacy.

'Simmer' dating is all about taking things slow (Photo by Roo Lewis / Getty Images)
'Simmer' dating is all about taking things slow (Photo by Roo Lewis / Getty Images)

"Simmer dating is about cultivating a deep and meaningful connection," dating expert, Ayushi Mishra, explains.

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"It's about taking the time to understand someone's values, goals, and aspirations. It's all about building a basic foundation of trust and respect."

So, if you're beyond fed up with the mind games of being 'ghosted' and even getting 'zombied', then 'simmer' dating may be the way to go.

Mishra adds: "When individuals take the time to truly get to know each other, they are less likely to have unrealistic expectations or to be blindsided by negative qualities."

'Simmer' dating can also be super beneficial for your 'personal growth' as well as your love life (Delmaine Donson / Getty Images)
'Simmer' dating can also be super beneficial for your 'personal growth' as well as your love life (Delmaine Donson / Getty Images)

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And it's not just your love life it can benefit as the expert explains the new dating trend can also be super beneficial for your 'personal growth'.

"You'll become more self-aware, better equipped to handle challenges in a relationship," she notes.

"This new trend is about taking a step back and appreciating the beauty of a slow-burning romance. It's about building a relationship that is based on substance rather than superficiality."

Well, it's come at a good time considering how close we are to 'cuffing season' now that 'hot girl summer' seems to be well and truly over.

Featured Image Credit: Getty Stock Images

Topics: Dating, Dating trends, Life, Sex and Relationships, Advice

Rhiannon Ingle
Rhiannon Ingle

Rhiannon Ingle is a Senior Journalist at Tyla, specialising in TV, film, travel, and culture. A graduate of the University of Manchester with a degree in English Literature, she honed her editorial skills as the Lifestyle Editor of The Mancunian, the UK’s largest student newspaper. With a keen eye for storytelling, Rhiannon brings fresh perspectives to her writing, blending critical insight with an engaging style. Her work captures the intersection of entertainment and real-world experiences.

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