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Matching Indiyah With Ikenna Was 'Lazy', Relationship Expert Says

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Published 16:12 8 Jun 2022 GMT+1

Matching Indiyah With Ikenna Was 'Lazy', Relationship Expert Says

Relationship expert Gifty Enright has weighed in on the public's decision to match the Black contestants together on Love Island.

Gregory Robinson

Gregory Robinson

Love Island fans were given unprecedented control this series by being given the chance to vote for who should couple up in the first episode.

While the new process was well received by most viewers, some fans immediately suspected that viewers would pair the Black contestants together simply because of the colour of their skin... and they were right.

Monday night saw Indiyah matched with Ikenna while Amber was matched with Dami, which led to a firey debate on social media.

Indiyah and Ikenna were chosen by the public.
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One fan complained: "I knew the Black people would be coupled together. The public is so predictable."

Another viewer tweeted: "Typical of the public to put the Black people together. Do better guys."

A third chimed in and said: "Also, of course there is a lack of chemistry between the Black couples – they know they were lumped together based on race and mostly likely have no chance with any of the other white islanders. There is such an obvious divide."

Relationship expert Gifty Enright has weighed in on the results and despite praising the change to the coupling system in the first episode, she has explained why the public voting to couple up Black contestants simply because they're Black is 'lazy'.

She said: "The audience, Black or white, did what normal humans do, responded to their unconscious bias and used the contestants’ colour as a shortcut, rather than going a level deeper when it came to the Black contestants. 

“When it comes to matchmaking, people are looking for things in common so matching the Black people together hits one commonality but that is not enough.

"The white contestants were not matched just because of their colour, other attributes came into play to determine whether they will be compatible or not.

"Matching the Black contestants together was just lazy.”

Dami and Amber were chosen to couple up by the public.
ITV.

Some social media users defended the result by reminding everyone that it is not unusual to see Black couples together. “It’s not by force to set Black people together uno [sic],” said one Twitter user.

Another viewer wrote: “See now I can't decide if the public are just racist so they paired the Black people together or if they know that Black girls don't have a fair chance so they paired them together.”

A third said: “Can’t tell if I like the new format. Like it’s better than the Black women not getting picked but the public just put all the Black people together randomly."

Someone else tweeted: “I thought everyone wanted the Black people together idk why everyone’s mad??”

Enright, who is Black and works as an empowerment coach, said while the new method of establishing the first couples for the series was a welcome change, the public's decision may not have given the Black contestants the best chance at finding love.

"The old ‘stepping forward’ regime was humiliating for the Black women because they were the last to be picked. So with this new method, they are at least saved from that humiliation but it doesn’t necessarily give them the best possible chance of finding love in the villa.

"To find love, people should be paired together because they are compatible, not because they are the same colour.”

Featured Image Credit: ITV

Topics: TV And Film, ITV, Love Island, Sex and Relationships

Gregory Robinson
Gregory Robinson

Gregory is a journalist working for Tyla. After graduating with a master's degree in journalism, he has worked for both print and online publications and is particularly interested in TV, (pop) music and lifestyle. He loves Madonna, teen dramas from the '90s and prefers tea over coffee.

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