A woman has revealed the iconic way she turned the tables on an ex who tried to 'sextort' her with nude photos she sent him 12 years ago.
Watch her videos below:
Taylor Bowens-Loven, a content creator and fantasy novelist, took to TikTok to share her jaw-dropping story and explained how she chose to respond to his extortion in the best possible way after learning he had a file saved on his computer with all the photos he had been sent by exes.
She said in the video, which has over 1.8 million views: “So this guy who I sent nudes to 12 years ago is trying to make me a victim of 'sextortion', but he's got the wrong b***h. I tell y'all that.
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“This man has an entire fiancée and a baby in his profile picture and messages me and goes, 'I was just having fun looking at the nudes you sent me years ago'.
“B***h what? I was sitting there thinking, 'did I send this dude nudes when I was 19?' And I'm like, 'whatever'.
The TikToker continued: “Even if I did, I didn't put my face in it. So, I was like, 'I would appreciate it if you would delete those. I was like, 'why do you still have them? You're in an entire relationship and have a family.'
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“He was like, 'Oh I save them. I have a file on my computer where I save stuff from women'. Then he sends me the photos he was talking about.
“My dumba** had my face in it. And then he says to me, 'you need to send me pictures of your current body or I will post these nudes?' I was like, 'hell no, you're not getting s*** from me. I'm going to block you'.”
While arguing with him over messages, Taylor had the genius idea to trawl through her email in search of a nude photo he sent of himself all those years ago.
Finding one, she quickly edited 'd*ck pic with the current date' and sent to his fiancée and sent to him. And what do you know? He blocked her.
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Taylor, who has two degrees in the criminal justice field, shared in a second video about the story: “Little did he know in the meantime I was aggying (sic) him on, I was editing the dick pic he sent me to the current day's date, and I sent it to his fiancée. He blocked me and never posted my nudes.”
When asked if she considered reporting him to police, Taylor, who comes from Charlotte, North Carolina, told Newsflash that trying to press charges or sue her ex for sextortion would have been “lengthy” due to him living in Florida.
After attempts to reach out to her ex’s fiancée to help delete the images he had of her and other women were left unanswered, she took matters into her own hands.
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The social media said she reached out to her former mentor in Florida who organised for two retired cops to pay the man a visit to “convince” him to delete the images he had saved off his laptop.
Taylor told Newsflash: “[The retired cops] politely asked if he would get his laptop and let them delete and remove the pictures completely. He luckily complied and was very apologetic to them. He never apologised to me or the other women.
“They made sure the files were deleted and they then erased two other women’s nude photos that were saved in a file on his computer.
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“They also got the contact information to those women and contacted them after leaving his house and informed them of what happened, and provided them with information on what to do if they wanted to press charges against him.
“Neither of the women went forward with suing or pressing charges, they were just thankful that the pictures were deleted. They were both women who hadn’t dated this man in years.”
Taylor said finding out that her ex still had those photos over 10 years later made her feel 'violated' and 'powerless' in the moment but found strength in knowing she 'needed to help protect these other women who he had pictures of'.
“I hope that me sticking up for myself and other women taught him a lesson,” she added. “At the end of the day I will always have anxiety over the fact that he very well could have my photos saved somewhere else.”
Round of applause for Taylor. What a woman!
Topics: Sex and Relationships, TikTok, Real Life
Lisa McLoughlin