• News
  • Life
  • TV & Film
  • Beauty
  • Style
  • Home
  • News
    • Celebrity
    • Entertainment
    • Politics
    • Royal Family
  • Life
    • Animals
    • Food & Drink
    • Women's Health
    • Mental Health
    • Sex & Relationships
    • Travel
    • Real Life
  • TV & Film
    • True Crime
    • Documentaries
    • Netflix
    • BBC
    • ITV
    • Tyla Recommends
  • Beauty
    • Hair
    • Make-up
    • Skincare
  • Style
    • Home
    • Fashion
    • Shopping
  • Advertise
  • Terms
  • Privacy & Cookies
  • LADbible Group
  • LADbible
  • UNILAD
  • SPORTbible
  • GAMINGbible
  • UNILAD Tech
  • FOODbible
  • License Our Content
  • About Us & Contact
  • Jobs
  • Latest
  • Topics A-Z
  • Authors
Facebook
Instagram
X
Threads
TikTok
Submit Your Content
Child-free woman responds to backlash after fury over 'mum-shaming' post

Home> Life> Parenting

Published 15:21 25 Jan 2024 GMT

Child-free woman responds to backlash after fury over 'mum-shaming' post

The Australian model compared dressing her Pomeranian puppy to a clip of a mum trying to dress her restless toddler

Rhianna Benson

Rhianna Benson

The notion that no woman's life is complete without one day welcoming a child is - thankfully - starting to be considered a damaging, stone age philosophy.

And for the first time in history, we're seeing more and more ladies ditching societal conventions surround motherhood and owning the fact that they don't want kids.

This said, one 'proudly child-free' woman from Australia has recently been subjected to a tidal wave of accusations of 'mum-shaming' following a controversial Instagram upload.

This isn't the first time that model and social media star Ellie Gonsalves had hit the headlines for ruffling the feathers of her parent followers.

Just before Christmas, the 33-year-old divided opinion by posting a list of 178 reasons why she never wants children on Instagram.

Advert

Whilst some understood the comedic element to Ellie's lengthy list, she was hit with immediate backlash from many mums that were offended by her choices.

And just two months later, the Aussie once again found herself in hot water over another contentious online upload.

The video, uploaded last week, sees her comparing the arduous task of dressing a restless baby with her well-behaved Pomeranian puppy.


Advert

The model posted 178 reasons why she doesn't want children on Instagram.
Instagram/@ellie_gonslaves

Being that she'd stitched her calm and collected dog video with a chaotic clip of a social media-using baby-mum, she was accused of making a mockery of motherhood.

Ellie's video has since sparked a huge debate in the comment section, with mant viewers accusing her of posting insensitive content.

"I’ll never understand people who feel the need to put down someone else’s decision in some way to validate their own decisions," one penned.

Advert

Another hit out: "Not all kids are like that and not all dogs are like that. Making children look like demons to validate your decision to not have them seems a little icky."

Others, on the other hand, opted not to take Ellie's notes too personally.

Ellie shared a video of her dressing her dog in comparison to a mum trying to calm down a restless toddler.
Instagram/@ellie_gonsalves

"I honestly don’t understand all the comments against these posts? There are so many mommy bloggers you can follow if you want to see people happy with the choice to have children. It’s not that deep," one defended her.

Advert

Well, Ellie has since spoken out about the backlash she's received regarding her views and posts online, telling The Project she'd been 'called everything under the sun' over her thoughts on parenthood.

"So if I’m that person that can have a voice and make people feel seen and heard who feel the way that I do then that’s amazing," she continued at the time.

Regardless of whether or not someone decides to have children, we should all be supportive of one another no matter what!

LADbible Group reached out to Ellie for comment.

Featured Image Credit: Instagram/@ellie_gonsalves

Topics: Parenting, Pregnancy, Celebrity, Australia

Rhianna Benson
Rhianna Benson

Rhianna is an Entertainment Journalist at LADbible Group, working across LADbible, UNILAD and Tyla. She has a Masters in News Journalism from the University of Salford and a Masters in Ancient History from the University of Edinburgh. She previously worked as a Celebrity Reporter for OK! and New Magazines, and as a TV Writer for Reach PLC.

X

@rhiannaBjourno

Advert

Advert

Advert

  • Warning issued over 'free births' as parents choose to do it despite risks
  • Mum accidentally gives her kid NSFW name while trying to honour grandparents
  • Influencer sparks backlash over 'insensitive' post about wife who’s just given birth
  • Doctors forced to apologise after woman accidentally gives birth to stranger's baby

Choose your content:

14 hours ago
18 hours ago
19 hours ago
  • Getty Stock Image
    14 hours ago

    Baby name expert reveals growing Gen Z baby name issue - and it’s all to do with Boomers

    SJ Strum, the UK's leading baby name consultant, has shared a major dilemma more and more Gen Z parents are facing

    Life
  • JEAN-FRANCOIS MONIER/AFP via Getty Images
    18 hours ago

    Babybel makes huge change to its well-known packaging

    The change is set to be fully rolled out in just a few months' time

    Life
  • PA Real Life
    19 hours ago

    Teen diagnosed with aggressive cancer after spotting lump on hand

    Morgane Grappy was diagnosed with rhabdomyosarcoma aged 14

    Life
  • Getty Stock Image
    19 hours ago

    Millennials and Gen Zs work out what the next two generations will be called - not everyone agrees

    If you have a baby this year, they'll be part of entirely new generation - and it's not Gen Alpha

    Life