Topics: Celebrity, Sex and Relationships, Parenting
Emily Ratajkowski has criticised men for ‘thinking with their d*cks’ not long after she was filmed snogging Harry Styles in the streets of Tokyo.
The 31-year-old model was spotted making out with the 29-year-old pop star in Japan at the weekend and since their PDA moment went viral, Ratajkowski has shared an update on her dating life and her plans for more children.
The Gone Girl star, who shares two-year-old son Sylvester with ex-husband Sebastian Bear-McClard, responded to a fan in a new subscription-only question and answer session.
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The fan asked: “Is it cool to raise a baby without the father?” to which the ‘Blurred Lines’ music video star called out men for being obsessed with their sexual desires.
“I thought about this a lot - a lot of my friends have gotten their eggs frozen just to buy themselves some more time, do the careers they want, meet the potential partner they want, but also I know a lot of people had IVF because they weren't able to get pregnant naturally,” she began.
“And, I'm 31, and it was really crazy - my last visit with a gaeno [gynecologist], and she was like, 'Ok, well in about two or three years we'll be talking about your eggs, you know, being frozen.' And it really shocked me - not that I don't think that's reasonable, I was just like, 'Holy s**t, I have to be thinking about that?'
“My mum naturally got pregnant with me at 38 so it never crossed my mind that part of it."
While Ratajkowski hopes to give her son a younger sibling in the future, she doesn’t think she’ll find a partner she wants to have a child with.
She explained: “I think I definitely would like to have more children - I really love being a mom. I'm not sure I'm going to find somebody that I want to raise a child with. A friend of mine - a very famous friend with many sisters, when I told her I was getting divorced, was like, 'Don't worry, like, guys are not deterred by you having a child.”
Ratajkowski added: “And guess what? She was right. I will say there are men who are more respectful of my family, which is me and Sly, and our relationship, and more cognisant of it than others. And that makes a huge difference for me.
“Like if you are appreciative of my life as a mother and my time with Sly and how he is Number 1, like, you win so many points."
Ratajkowski suggested that men don’t tend to have concerns about being a step-parent if they’re trying to get with the mum, unlike a woman.
“But in general, it's not like guys are like, 'Oh my God, I don't wanna be a stepdad' - that's too much pressure," she said.
“I'm so sorry to say this - men think with their d**ks. And they're just not that advanced.
“Like a woman would be like, ‘I don't even know if I can go on a first date with this guy - he has two kids.’
“Guys are just not there. So they'll be in love with you and they'll be like, 'Oh s**t, she has two kids - guess I'm a stepdad.”
The model went on to say that she hasn’t ruled out raising another child as a single mum but she’s aware that ‘there’s no shifts’ when there’s only one parent.
