An OnlyFans creator has revealed why she 'gets' why men don't want to date her but doesn't 'understand it'.
Adult film star and content creator Billie Beever has taken to TikTok to open up about how her career impacts her love life.
Billie used to be a hairdresser but joined the world of adult film at the age of 18.
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After potential dates turned her down because of her 'history and past', the mum has interrogated how much of a valid reason it is.
In a video uploaded yesterday (Monday 6 March), Billie shared her dating discovery with followers.
She said: "So I just found out the reason why men can't date me. They say they're my friend, they respect me, I'm the ideal woman, a great mother, I'm a caring person.
"But then they say, 'I can't be with you because of your history and your past'.
"We all have a past, we all have a history, the only difference is I filmed mine. Mine's on camera. Does that make me not datable? Seriously?
"I mean, I get it, but I don't get it."
In a more recent video, Billie elaborates on why she 'get[s] it' but also doesn't.
She said: "I'm not bashing men. I get it that they don't want to date someone who's had a past like me, but I don't understand it.
"I simply don't understand it because I've probably had sex with the same or less amount of people that you have. The only difference is that I filmed it. That's the only difference.
"I understand that guys don't want to be with someone where that is accessible and your friends can see it, but that's the only difference.
"It doesn't mean I'm more of a w***e or this or that. Or looser or have more STDs. It doesn't meant that at all."
The content creator went on to note sex workers actually 'get tested quite often'.
"It's just so funny how we get so stigmatised into thinking we're disgusting, we're dirty, we're filthy and we've had so many people in us when it's quite frankly, not the case at all. Most of us are the complete opposite of that," Billie continues.
Billie resolved: "I'm not saying they should leave my past and not worry about my past, I'm saying the things I've done in the past are who I am and what have made me who I am today.
"I get why it affects you but I still don't really understand it. It's like me saying, 'Oh well you've slept with 200 women that's disgusting' when I've slept with way less."
Topics: Sex and Relationships, TikTok, Parenting
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