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Michelle Obama makes sad admission about body part that was 'weaponised' against her

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Published 17:31 5 Nov 2025 GMT

Michelle Obama makes sad admission about body part that was 'weaponised' against her

The former First Lady described how the media and public’s 'fascination' with the innocuous body was used as a tool to 'otherize' her

Rhiannon Ingle

Rhiannon Ingle

Michelle Obama has opened up about how one specific body part of hers was 'weaponised' against her by the media and critics alike.

Despite being hailed as one of the most popular First Ladies of all time - alongside her husband, Barack Obama, who was in office between 2009 to 2017 - she came under an avalanche of cruel comments, online trolling and baseless speculative theories during her time in the White House.

Michelle, 61, has actually discussed the impact of such treatment in her new fashion photo book, The Look, which was just released this week.

In the new book, Michelle opened up about the many different aspects of her personal style and about how she leveraged fashion to shine a light on causes she deemed most important, including education, military families and children's health.

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She also candidly expressed how the press's response to certain ensembles she'd wear, specifically ones which showed *shock horror* her arms, affected her.

Michelle Obama has opened up about how the press treated her when she was First Lady in her new book titled The Look (Arturo Holmes / Staff / Getty Images)
Michelle Obama has opened up about how the press treated her when she was First Lady in her new book titled The Look (Arturo Holmes / Staff / Getty Images)

One look she donned when accompanying Barack to his first address to a joint session seemed to really send critics into a spiral, with them claiming it was 'too informal', 'inappropriate' and 'out of season'.

Other notable headlines included 'Up In Arms' as well as 'Sleevegate'.

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Michelle aptly pointed out that previous first ladies, like Jacqueline Kennedy, had worn sleeveless dresses before - but noted that their take on the silhouette never caused what she described as an 'uproar', noting that the media and public’s 'fascination' with her bare arms was used as a tool to 'otherize' her.

"While I am certainly not the only First Lady to get scrutinised - Hillary was constantly dinged for her preference for pantsuits, and Nancy Reagan was lambasted for her love of haute couture - this felt different," she wrote.

"Barack and I were being portrayed as Black people who didn’t understand the 'rules' of the rarefied world we had found ourselves in and were not unequivocally welcomed into."

Unfortunately, this was just one of many incidents where her style choices were deemed to be 'un-first lady-like', Michelle writes.

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Michelle described how the media and public’s 'fascination' with her bare arms was used as a tool to 'otherize' her (Dr. Billy Ingram / Contributor / Getty Images)
Michelle described how the media and public’s 'fascination' with her bare arms was used as a tool to 'otherize' her (Dr. Billy Ingram / Contributor / Getty Images)

Back in 2009, during on a trip to the Grand Canyon to highlight the country’s national parks, Michelle opted for shorts, a tank top, an oversized shirt and hiking trainers - a fit she felt appropriate for both the rugged terrain and hot weather.

However, it's clear some media outlets took major issue with the, frankly, completely A-OK get-up.

The Washington Post fashion reporter Robin Givhan called the attire 'common' in an article which Michelle said she 'found particularly painful'.

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“I’d grown to expect this kind of commentary from men and political opponents, but it was upsetting to me that a fellow Black woman would contribute to the pile-on," she said. "We were seven months into a brand-new administration, and I was the first Black First Lady trying to find my way."

The mother of two also mentioned how she had to be careful with her facial expressions after stepping into the public-facing role.

Michelle recalls being told to be 'careful of my tone and facial expressions' as First Lady (CHARLY TRIBALLEAU/AFP via Getty Images)
Michelle recalls being told to be 'careful of my tone and facial expressions' as First Lady (CHARLY TRIBALLEAU/AFP via Getty Images)

"I was shocked when our communications team shared notes, rather sheepishly, that I should be careful of my tone and facial expressions, because my passion and humour could be weaponised against me," she recalled.

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"I can’t remember the first instance I was described as 'angry' by the press, only that it was often enough that articles and academic papers have since been written about the phenomenon.

"While I intellectually understood how that 'angry Black woman' trope could be used against me – and frankly, why Black women should be angry – in these instances, I was simply speaking my truth."

If you have been affected by any of the issues in this article and wish to speak to someone in confidence, contact Stop Hate UK by visiting their website www.stophateuk.org.

Featured Image Credit: MANDEL NGAN/AFP via Getty Image

Topics: Michelle Obama, Barack Obama, Politics, US News, Books, Fashion

Rhiannon Ingle
Rhiannon Ingle

Rhiannon Ingle is a Senior Journalist at Tyla, specialising in TV, film, travel, and culture. A graduate of the University of Manchester with a degree in English Literature, she honed her editorial skills as the Lifestyle Editor of The Mancunian, the UK’s largest student newspaper. With a keen eye for storytelling, Rhiannon brings fresh perspectives to her writing, blending critical insight with an engaging style. Her work captures the intersection of entertainment and real-world experiences.

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