Featured Image Credit: YouTube/Love Don't Judge
Topics: Sex and Relationships, Real Life
Ali Condon
Stay-at-home wife Monica says she's so dedicated to making her husband happy that she lets him sleep with other women outside of their marriage.
As well as cooking every meal for her husband John, keeping their house looking spick and span, and making sure she always looks her best for him, Monica's 'traditional housewife' lifestyle also involves letting her partner of six years get freaky with multiple women.
And while he's out sleeping around and doing other 'manly' jobs, Monica estimates that about 98 percent of her day revolves around her husband.
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"I've always had a submissive side since I can remember and I've always been drawn to assertive and dominant males," Monica, 37, said in an interview with YouTube channel Love Don't Judge.
"I enjoy being a traditional housewife because that's my love language. I love to make people I love feel good.
"It's not like I'm a hopeless little girl, it's not that. It's just he's assertive and I like that in a man."
Under the watchful eye of her husband, Monica makes sure she looks presentable every single day before she gets to work on her long list of 'traditional housewife' chores.
"My mum told me, ‘be pretty and in good shape because nobody wants a fat and ugly wife'," she explains.
Not everyone is so supportive of Monica and John's old-fashioned lifestyle, though.
"I've actually had childhood friends reach out telling me I've lost my dignity as a woman and I also shouldn't have children because I would be a horrible mum because we do what we do," admitted Monica.
Monica's friends aren't too thrilled about Monica and John's extra-marital arrangement, either.
Explaining why she agreed to the set-up, Monica shared: "I feel like, as a female, I have a different view on sex than a male does. So for a guy it's just a fun thing.
"I know in my heart that he loves me because he comes home to me, he takes really good care of me."
John, who spoke in his home office which is decorated with action figures, added: "It's a luxury I have that probably most guys wish they had, just because of genetic programming.
"If you look at all the other mammals, how they do it, typically the alpha male gets to bang all the females.
"I think it just makes for a much more relaxed relationship because there's nothing in my life that I desire that I can't have. And I think that makes me a better husband."
No matter what her friends, family, or anyone else thinks, Monica insists that she's happy with the relationship she has built with John.
"I can see how people that don't know us might think, 'oh that's not healthy', or 'that's bad', but I think if you're a good person and you're with someone you really, really love and you're soulmates, it's a whole different thing.
"I love my marriage and I love him, and I don't think there's anything stopping us from living like this always."