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Psychologist reveals what they’d actually diagnose Joe Goldberg with as You season five leaves people confused

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Published 16:34 28 Apr 2025 GMT+1

Psychologist reveals what they’d actually diagnose Joe Goldberg with as You season five leaves people confused

An expert has shared her insights on what the antagonist character would be diagnosed with based on his behaviour

Rhiannon Ingle

Rhiannon Ingle

A psychologist has revealed what they’d actually diagnose Joe Goldberg with as You season five leaves viewers seriously confused.

Now, the hit thriller series, fronted by Penn Badgley, first hit our screens way back in 2018, and we've been treated to five gripping seasons since with the latest instalment only landing on the streaming platform last week (24 April).

But it's clear that, even after all these years, Netflix are still none the wiser about the TV show's antagonist, Joe Goldberg (Badgley) and what he would actually be diagnosed with based on his actions in You.

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"What exactly is Joe Goldberg's diagnosis?" asked on X user. "5 seasons later, he still thinks the world is the problem and not him. I almost started to believe it myself."

Well, to understand a little more about what actually goes on in the infamous character's head, Tyla sat down with psychologist Dannielle Haig, who shared her expertise on the subject matter.

Acknowledging that the character of Joe Goldberg is 'such an interesting character to unpack from a psychological perspective', she confirmed that a number of narcissistic traits are 'certainly present'.

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"But," she outlined, "there is actually a much more complex clinical picture when you look a little deeper."

From a professional standpoint, according to the expert, Joe displays 'strong markers' for Antisocial Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder, but there are also traits that point towards Obsessive Love Disorder and even some elements that align with Borderline Personality Disorder.

So, without further ado, let's get into it...

Netflix viewers were left wondering what Joe Goldberg would be diagnosed with if he existed in real life (Netflix)
Netflix viewers were left wondering what Joe Goldberg would be diagnosed with if he existed in real life (Netflix)

Antisocial Personality Disorder

Dannielle points out that Joe consistently demonstrates a lack of empathy, a disregard for the rights of others, manipulativeness, deceitfulness, and criminal behaviour without genuine remorse.

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"His actions, including stalking, violence, and murder, are methodical yet emotionally detached, fitting the classic criteria for ASPD," she notes.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Additionally, the psychologist highlights the fact that Joe views himself as a 'good guy' and rationalises deeply harmful actions as being 'for love' or 'for the greater good'.

It is this exact self-idealisation and entitlement to control others' lives, believing he knows best, which are 'strong indicators of narcissistic traits'.

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A psychologist pointed to a number of disorders the character showed traits of (Netflix)
A psychologist pointed to a number of disorders the character showed traits of (Netflix)

Obsessive Love Disorder

"While not an official diagnosis, Joe fixates obsessively on romantic partners, quickly elevating them to an idealised status and believing they are 'meant to be'," Danielle continues.

And, as we know, he then goes to extreme, controlling lengths to maintain or regain that connection.

Borderline traits

And, lastly, Dannielle notes that some of Joe's intense fear of abandonment, unstable and intense relationships, and black-and-white thinking (for example 'you are either perfect or you are a threat') hint at traits commonly seen in Borderline Personality Disorder.

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"However," she adds, "he does not fully meet the emotional instability typically associated with BPD."

The psychologist pointed out that Joe is 'not someone struggling with a mental health issue like depression or anxiety' (Netflix)
The psychologist pointed out that Joe is 'not someone struggling with a mental health issue like depression or anxiety' (Netflix)

Anything else?

Dannielle also makes a point to highlight the fact that Joe is 'not someone struggling with a mental health issue like depression or anxiety'.

She explains: "His behaviours are deeply ingrained, persistent, and harmful to others, aligning more with what we understand as personality disorders.

"These are patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving that are rigid, pervasive, and significantly impact how someone interacts with the world."

The expert concludes that, in short, Joe is 'not simply a narcissist'.

"He exhibits a chilling blend of antisocial traits, narcissistic entitlement, obsessive romantic ideation, and abandonment fears, making him a textbook example of how complex, and dangerous, certain personality disorders can become when left unchecked," Dannielle resolves.

All five seasons of You is currently available to stream on Netflix.

Featured Image Credit: Netflix

Topics: TV And Film, Netflix, Mental Health, Explained, Tyla Exclusive

Rhiannon Ingle
Rhiannon Ingle

Rhiannon Ingle is a Senior Journalist at Tyla, specialising in TV, film, travel, and culture. A graduate of the University of Manchester with a degree in English Literature, she honed her editorial skills as the Lifestyle Editor of The Mancunian, the UK’s largest student newspaper. With a keen eye for storytelling, Rhiannon brings fresh perspectives to her writing, blending critical insight with an engaging style. Her work captures the intersection of entertainment and real-world experiences.

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