Love Island's Montana Brown mum-shamed after sharing she keeps son home over school run fears
Topics: Love Island, Parenting, TikTok, Reality TV
Ben Williams
Featured Image Credit: Instagram/@motanabrown1
Topics: Love Island, Parenting, TikTok, Reality TV
Love Island star Montana Brown has found herself at the centre of a parenting debate after sharing a candid update about motherhood.
The former Islander, who rose to fame on the ITV2 dating show back in 2017, has often spoken openly with her followers about life as a mum.
Montana, 30, welcomed her first child, Jude Isaiah O’Connor, with partner Mark O’Connor in June 2023, later writing: “Welcome to the world Jude Isaiah O’Connor. We’re so smitten with you little man 23.06.23.”
The reality TV star has since become a mum-of-two, also sharing daughter Miley with Mark.
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Although, her latest TikTok has a thread of mum-shaming online, with social media users rushing to weigh in on her comments.
In the video, filmed from her car, Montana explained she had been feeling anxious about the thought of sending Jude to school, saying the idea of being tied to the school run had left her feeling panicked.
She began: “I don't know if any other parents can relate to this. I mean, I say parents, but I'm going to target this at mothers because I feel like this is a mother's issue.”
“People keep asking me ‘Oh, why don't you have Jude in school?’. I am petrified of him going to school because it means I'm tied to the school run.”
Montana went on to admit that the thought of her children entering the school system had made her question what the next stage of her life might look like.
She said: “And I don't know why, but I'm having like a freak out. I feel like I'm questioning everything, and I feel really unsettled at the minute because I feel like all my possibilities are coming crumbling down”.
She added: “I'm like, what if I want to study something. What if I want to become a doctor or something? What if I want to travel to South America?”
“All my possibilities are gone, and I know that they're not gone and I can still do those things, but it feels like I can't because, quite frankly, my kids need me.”
Montana continued: “I don't know if anyone else can relate to this or if I sound clinically insane, but I just feel really young, and I've got two children, and I've got dependables.”
The TikTok video’s comments section was quickly flooded with reactions, with some viewers criticising the reality star’s take on this side of parenting.
One person wrote: “Most people think about this before having kids.”
Another asked: “was none of this considered [before] having the kids?”
A third commented: “If your biggest concern in life is not being able to go on holiday to South America, then you have ZERO problems. Genuinely you’ve won the game - congrats”
Someone else added: “You’re more limited by having them home everyday. It’s constantly doing things for the kids, when they are at school, you have YOU time.”
Others were more sympathetic, with one writing: “I know what you mean to be fair, it’s like the freedom to just drop everything & go is gone once they’re in school. I think that’s what you mean lol maybe not”
Another added: “The school run is absolutely horrendously draining and claustrophobic.”