• News
  • Life
  • TV & Film
  • Beauty
  • Style
  • Home
  • News
    • Celebrity
    • Entertainment
    • Politics
    • Royal Family
  • Life
    • Animals
    • Food & Drink
    • Women's Health
    • Mental Health
    • Sex & Relationships
    • Travel
    • Real Life
  • TV & Film
    • True Crime
    • Documentaries
    • Netflix
    • BBC
    • ITV
    • Tyla Recommends
  • Beauty
    • Hair
    • Make-up
    • Skincare
  • Style
    • Home
    • Fashion
    • Shopping
  • Advertise
  • Terms
  • Privacy & Cookies
  • LADbible Group
  • LADbible
  • UNILAD
  • SPORTbible
  • GAMINGbible
  • UNILAD Tech
  • FOODbible
  • License Our Content
  • About Us & Contact
  • Jobs
  • Latest
  • Topics A-Z
  • Authors
Facebook
Instagram
X
Threads
TikTok
Submit Your Content
Penn Badgley makes very rare comment about 'struggle' of dating Blake Lively

Home> Entertainment> Celebrity

Updated 10:55 5 Nov 2025 GMTPublished 18:27 23 Apr 2025 GMT+1

Penn Badgley makes very rare comment about 'struggle' of dating Blake Lively

Penn Badgley reflected on the one major challenge of dating his Gossip Girl co-star

Gregory Robinson

Gregory Robinson

Guess what, Upper East Siders; Penn Badgley is finally opening up about his former real-life love interest – Blake Lively.

Both actors are known and adored for their on-screen love affair as Dan Humphrey and Serena van der Woodsen in the hit teen drama Gossip Girl, which aired for six seasons between 2007 and 2012.

Any true Upper East Sider knows, their love story continued even when the cameras stopped rolling. However, the relationship was a ‘struggle’, because the pair's life became so interwoven with their television characters.

Badgley appeared on the 23 April episode of the Call Her Daddy podcast and he spilled all the details about the ups and downs of dating a co-star with host Alex Cooper.

Advert

Blake Lively and Penn Badgley in 2009 (REUTERS/Alamy Stock Photo)
Blake Lively and Penn Badgley in 2009 (REUTERS/Alamy Stock Photo)

After many, many years of radio silence about the relationship, Badgley finally gave fans a few tidbits about the romance. Life imitated art far too closely it seems, as the 38-year-old star was also living in New York City where the show about pompous Manhattan teens was filmed.

Cooper asked if he could ‘separate’ his job from his personal life, or whether it ‘merged’.

“I mean, that's a great question because it was the struggle,” he confessed. “When you do a television show, you're doing it constantly.”

Advert

And don’t think Badgely is unaware of fans being unable to separate him from Dan – as his celebrity status grew, it became a struggle for everyone. We can all be glad the same hasn’t happened with cold-blooded serial killer Joe Goldberg.

Penn Badgley and Blake Lively dated IRL (The CW)
Penn Badgley and Blake Lively dated IRL (The CW)

“What starts to happen when you're in this one role for a long time — the aspect of celebrity being a part of it, a huge part of it — there is not enough separation, I think, for anybody,” he shared. “You're seen as this person, you're called their name out on the street. You also constantly have to be that person at work.”

He revealed that in his early 20s, he did not have the 'emotional maturity to understand how to differentiate' himself from his character 'in terms of self-worth'.

Advert

Badgley has embraced daddy duties with indie music darling Domino Kirke, 41. The married couple share a four-year-old son, and word is the youngster will soon become a big brother to twins. That’s right, Badgley's next chapter is being a father of three.

Lively meanwhile has her own family saga: she tied the knot with actor Ryan Reynolds, 48, in 2012 and now they’re the parents to four children: daughters James, 10, Inez, eight, Betty, five, and son Olin, two.

Turns out, not every Upper East Side love story ends in forever. And for both Badgley and Lively, happily ever after was with someone entirely different.

XOXO.

Featured Image Credit: Jamie McCarthy/WireImage

Topics: Gossip Girl, Celebrity, Penn Badgley, Blake Lively

Gregory Robinson
Gregory Robinson

Gregory is a journalist working for Tyla. After graduating with a master's degree in journalism, he has worked for both print and online publications and is particularly interested in TV, (pop) music and lifestyle. He loves Madonna, teen dramas from the '90s and prefers tea over coffee.

Advert

Advert

Advert

  • Penn Badgley opens up about body dysmorphia during difficult time in early teens
  • Blake Lively issues emotional tribute to Gossip Girl co-star Michelle Trachtenberg after she dies aged 39
  • New Justin Baldoni text messages expose more claims against Blake Lively
  • Penn Badgley speaks out on Gossip Girl co-star Michelle Trachtenberg’s death for first time

Choose your content:

6 hours ago
9 hours ago
  • Instagram/@davidbeckham
    6 hours ago

    Brooklyn Beckham's shock legal move against parents explained as feud escalates

    The 26-year-old blocked parents David and Victoria Beckham, and siblings Romeo and Harper, on social media in December

    Entertainment
  • TikTok/@alabamabarker
    6 hours ago

    Alabama Barker shares lingerie pics following backlash over ‘inappropriate’ gift from dad Travis

    The 20-year-old has previously spoken out about the viral Christmas and birthday haul drama

    Entertainment
  • Francis Specker/CBS via Getty Images
    9 hours ago

    Dax Shepard praised for offering to pay for 11-year-old daughter's 'eggs to be frozen'

    The 'Without a Paddle' actor shares two daughters with wife Kristen Bell

    Entertainment
  • ROBYN BECK/AFP via Getty Images
    9 hours ago

    Sarah Michelle Gellar's 'ageing gracefully' admission sparks backlash

    The Scooby-Doo actress' comments have kicked off a heated discussion amongst fans online

    Entertainment