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Why We Need To Change The Way We Think About Getting ‘Wet’

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Why We Need To Change The Way We Think About Getting ‘Wet’

We need to talk about vaginal dryness.

It's something that happens to all women now and then. But not being able to get 'wet' at the drop of a hat, or more realistically a drop of the pants, can feel like a real spanner in the works.

The truth is it's totally normal to feel a little drier down there from time to time, and can depend simply on where you're at in your menstrual cycle, alongside a range of other factors. It's not always a sign that you're not turned on and there's plenty you can do to help if you're still up for having a good time.

So, let's slide into the world of vaginal lubrication to understand some of the reasons why it happens and what you can do to help.

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Why am I not 'wet'?

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The truth is that 'wetness' and arousal don't always go hand in hand, but that's nothing to be ashamed of. There are a number of reasons why a woman might not be able to get 'wet' on a particular day.

How lubricated we feel changes with our menstrual cycle, so it's totally normal to feel drier down there. Women can feel naturally drier for up to two thirds of our cycle - certainly not the rare occurrence it's been made out to be. This is because for about two thirds of the month levels of oestrogen in your body drop, which can have a direct effect on your natural lubrication levels, leaving you feeling drier than usual.

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Women can get naturally drier days, but 'wetter' days are better! So, if you're turned on but your vagina hasn't got the memo, then don't be afraid of getting a helping hand in the lubrication department.

Vaginal dryness can also vary due to many reasons such as anxiety, stress, lifestyle factors and medication. If you're worried about any of these issues or think that you may have a wider medical problem, then make sure to speak to a healthcare professional.

Are you using the right condoms?

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When you're feeling dry down there, sex can feel less pleasurable for both partners, and you might have found that condoms can contribute to it feeling a bit uncomfortable.

If that's the case, you'll be happy to know that there are condoms out there that have been designed to make everything feel a lot more smooth. Choosing condoms which have been coated with lubrication means that a bit of dryness won't stand in the way of a good time.

Durex Naturals condoms provide a natural feeling lubrication made using a gentle formula, so you can slip right into the moment without a care in the world.

The condoms are coated with a water-based lubricant made from 98% natural origin ingredients, and are made with a gentle formula designed for a smooth experience during sex. They are also free from artificial flavours and colourants, and are dermatologically tested.

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Lube is your friend

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It should go without saying but the most important thing about sex is that it feels good! Sex should be comfortable and pleasurable. If it's not, then what's the point?

A study in 2013 including women in the US found that nine out of ten women agree that sex feels better with lube. So we need to get comfortable talking about lube; your wonderful, slippery helping hand in the bedroom (or wherever you like to do it).

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Water-based lubes like the Durex Naturals range are made with 100 per cent natural ingredients, working with your body to add comfort when you need it most.

When you're having sex, all you should be thinking about is yourself and your partner. So if you're having one of those days where you feel a little dry, then don't stress about it. Grab some lube, squeeze it on and carry on thinking paying attention to what's important - each other.

Always read the pack instructions.

To view the full Durex Naturals range click here.

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